I know this is off topic, but I need some advice from others who know what we deal with on a daily basis with fm. I have fibromyalgia and vulvodynia. I joined a dating site a while back and started dating a guy that I met through this site, he was fine with the fm but as soon as he found out about the vulvodynia that was the end of the relationship. My membership has not ended yet from this site and I have other men who want to communicate with me, but I am unsure whether I should respond or not. I am currently seeing a doctor for the fm and vulvodynia and will be starting a course of treatment right after New Years, but am wondering if it even makes sense to try and pursue a relationship with someone right now, not knowing if the treatment will be a success or not and how long it will take. Should I just put that part of my life on hold right now and wait to see if things get better for me or should I try to see if I can find a guy who is willing to deal with all my ailments. Is there actually a man out there who would even be able to accept me with (especially vulvodynia) and the fibro. I just don't know? I'm 31, not getting any younger and really tired of being alone, while everyone else I know has a boyfriend or is already married. It's hard enough to find a nice guy today and having these illnesses makes it even harder and more stressful. Sorry for the rantings but I'm just very frustrated and confused at the moment. Any advice would be helpful.
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