It has always been that women do the cleaning hasn't it?? The majority of ppl tend to be slobs when there is someone to clear up after them!! My hubby is now my carer and does the majority of the chores, he moans about the mess the kids make!!LOL!! Tell your hubby he needs to do more around the home. Take care of you, hugs, Owlxx

Yeah tell him to shape up. and help you.Its time. marilyn

My hubby's made homemade soup, loaded the dishwasher and did some laundry. I'm still in my housecoat. If anything, in our house, HE should be revolting! ROFL Ok, I AM off to clean the toilet/bathrooms in a few mins! LOL I do have a 3 hour shift this afternoon too.

I got up yesterday to a perfectly clean house. I'm one of the lucky ones. We pretty much share all the chores. But I have been feeling really bad lately so he knows that it helps to have a clean house.

I might not should say this because some men are down right mean. But if your isn't you can try what i did....He would throw his dirty clothes everywhere. I DID NOT pick them up...it wasn't long he didn't have any clothes to wear so he decided to pick them up. As for the mess around the house I left it, only picked up after myself, when the house got totally disgusting he fussed, all I said , "none of this is my mess."

i am right there with u.. besides my bf living with me my dad also lives with us..
that 2 men in the house and it sucks.. bf doesnt do anything unless asked too.. dad does dishes and will sweep floors and let dogs out or in which ever..
bu ti am the one wiping down the counters and moping the floors and its the same thing everyday... uhg ... i was just gritting my teeth this morning because of this..lol or my favorite thing is u buy something to make something specific and they are all over it.. its gone before u get the cookies made..

grrrrrr.....
glad i am not alone on this...should we strike? i dont think it would do any good.... **hugs**

well....I am a stay at home Wife...and I control ALL the money...so picking up after him should not be an issue...lol....BUT...he will NOT even wipe off the kitchen cupboard after he makes a snack....THAT alone makes me Crazy !!

I applied to the local Catholic Community Services for their Volunteer Chore service. Just having someone scrub my bathroom every couple of weeks made a huge difference. If you are on Medicaid, most states have a chore assistance program for disabled people. Maybe there are similar resources in your area.