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Shoot me please
my mother came to visit
I have fibro but i'm having an RA flare right now too soooo ouchies...
My mother brought my auntie with her and promptly left wasn't here even 5 minutes
My house is a mess
fudge a duck didn't she phone me when she got home about my messy house bla bla bla bla...
tried to shame me told me there is no way my 10 year old made that mess....
HELL YES SHE DID!!!!!
I call her destructo for a reason....
I'm so sick of this shit from her
my auntie understands she has fibro too
how do you explain to someone they are being stupid... i'm so tired of being the bad guy... i've never been able to make her happy and i've never done anything right
now sore and flaring i have to scrub my house down so she won't come over to clean up..(she throws things out)*(sometimes important things)
then pats herself on the back and makes me feel inadiquate ..
it's getting to the point i'm gonna ban ALL visits from anyone... i really hate having anyone in my home now. i never invite anyone in...
it's my mess and noone elses business
I really mean it i absolutly hate having anyone in my home it's become a phobia for me..
thanks mom
my mother came to visit
I have fibro but i'm having an RA flare right now too soooo ouchies...
My mother brought my auntie with her and promptly left wasn't here even 5 minutes
My house is a mess
fudge a duck didn't she phone me when she got home about my messy house bla bla bla bla...
tried to shame me told me there is no way my 10 year old made that mess....
HELL YES SHE DID!!!!!
I call her destructo for a reason....
I'm so sick of this shit from her
my auntie understands she has fibro too
how do you explain to someone they are being stupid... i'm so tired of being the bad guy... i've never been able to make her happy and i've never done anything right
now sore and flaring i have to scrub my house down so she won't come over to clean up..(she throws things out)*(sometimes important things)
then pats herself on the back and makes me feel inadiquate ..
it's getting to the point i'm gonna ban ALL visits from anyone... i really hate having anyone in my home now. i never invite anyone in...
it's my mess and noone elses business
I really mean it i absolutly hate having anyone in my home it's become a phobia for me..
thanks mom
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I'm sorry you're feeling so bad, and I would not worry about this anymore. I say lay down on the couch with a cup of hot tea & watch some mindless TV. :)
Hugs, Shelli
Seriously though, you need to talk to her, or get your Aunt to, it sounds like your Aunt is more in line with how you are feeling. She might listen too from her sister??
It sounds like your Mom is trying to shame you by coming by without calling first. In my area that is considered rude but in other parts of the country it's commonplace.
One of the things my Mom likes to do is clean and organize. She came and helped me move recently and she was a big help. I am not organized at all.
Maybe turn this around and ask her if she would help you with the housework and organizing? She might want to help but doesn't know how to come out and ask.
I personally would put down boundaries on any drop by visits. I would just ask her if she could call first and see if you are up to a visit that day. I don't like unexpected guests and it makes me anxious too.
I personally go to visit my friends not their homes. I also make arrangements first.
Don't take it too hard because even the cleanest people can get caught off guard!
Hugs, Keleee :)
she says to me it doesn't matter and she loves me
then the next breath reprimands me for everything tells me off in front of my kids..
dear lord in heaven she looks at me like she looks at my father with utter contempt and a look of disgust on her face i don't even think she knows she's doing it.
it's almost like she's 2 different people and i'm really tired of catering to her..
i take so much from my mom and rarely ever complain and yes we talk almost everyday
i just wish she would stop i'm not a bad person i'm not my father
anyway it felt good to vent thanks guys