Good onya sue. now I know what bump means I think it bloody spiteful

The only thing I recall *bumping* is the post I made on the National Pain Care Policy Act. I bumped it because I felt it was extremely important due to it's possible future impact on chronic pain care patients. I just didn't want the opportunity to pass by because it got shoved behind newer posts.
That's ok, right? If not, let me know.

Dear Everyone,

I have been bumped, abused, kicked out, so many times in my life. Oh well, they were and are learning experiences for me to grow and figure out what I could have done different in that situation.
People don't like what they read, see, hear, so they "BUMP," "SILENCE," "CONVICT," even "KILL" the person or persons causing stress or a ripple effect or expressing a different view than your own. We all are basically selfish, self-centered by nature.

No one that is doing the wrong thing want's to have someone remind them of it. Or do they?

1. Fowl Language shouldn't be used here.
2. Prejudice shouldn't be.
3. Course jokes.
4. No Sexual advancements or jokes.
5. This is a place to feel safe and share our remedies for health problems.If someone is off there wagon and needs to see the Doctor, Therapist, or A.A. so on. They need to be told to get that help first.
No one can talk to an active alcoholic that in his or her cups. Nor can they do that for an addict or a un treated mental patient.
Or an angry jolted husband or wife.

Or a child that want's to blame there parents for there entire life going haywire.

God gave us His Son and "FREE WILL." We can choose to Right or Wrong.

That is my view and I am sticking to it.

Thanks

i was helping the authors of the subject get it dropped nuff said

Sorry they all misunderstood you my sweet friend. It is my fault. love and peace to every one. I can't take this ugliness here. I am in tears agin marilyn

as far as i was aware when i first joined here, and really only venture into this forum this place was supposed to be about support and advice from people going through similar things.

I actually cried when i first joined because i was so happy to finally find people who understood how i am feeling and a place where people can ask all the questions you might not get time to ask or even remember to ask your doctors.

Lately this place has turned into one big bitchfest, people air their personal arguements on here, snipe at each other constantly and generally dont use it for what it was intended for.

I am all for people staying to get support etc but people seriously need to get a grip on things and take their arguements and personal differences to personal messages. I doubt very much that new people want to read all the arguements that are going on. I am all for freedom to say what you want etc but surely in a forum thats supposed to be about FIBROMYALGIA personal snipes and nastiness shouldnt be aired here.

I for one will probably start looking for somewhere else to get support because its getting childish in here and like i posted somewhere yesterday, i get enough of that from my own children, i dont expect to come onto a site for adult conversation and read all the carry on thats been of late

*rant over*

Please don't cry dallas2, we will all get through this together.

Today I am going to a new gym with my "real life" friend named Dallas. She is always so supportive and energetic.

But, she is even down at this time due to martial problems, so, now it's my turn to support her!

Hugs and have a good day!

I think the bumping was because the some of the arguementative posts were being beat to death. Others were posting legitimate questions and they were going unanswered.

I agree, the bumping was being done out of spite, others were trying to get all the negative posts to the 2nd page, however most here know how to click page 2 and read and respond if they like, of which has happened all week. I for one am not going to waste my time trying to bump a post when in turn, someone will just bump that negative post again, out of spite. Not all are being true, some are bumping out of spite, some are bumping to get the negativity to the 2nd page, some are bumping some of the negative posts back to spite those that bumped them to the 2nd page. It is yet another childish game thats being played and is a visious circle that wont quit unless everyone just lets it all alone.
I can also see that some members dont have the chance to get on here daily, the only get on here once a week, so they read several pages and if they feel the need or want to give support they respond, thus bumping that post back to the top. Its simple, those posts that are negative, we all know the author and subject title, we know they are negative, so why read or respond to them. If its a member that wants to offer support to a negative post so be it. They have that right.
But i agree the bumping is childish and uncalled for, if being done for other reasons other than to show awareness of that post. Thus wondering where the "nasty" post about lil ole me went.. hmm.. KARMAL IS SO GOOD.

Although some of us had good intentions lets ignore all the negative posts and move on to other things. Like support others that need it right now, we have a dear friend with a sick daughter, we have a new few members that are looking for friends, we have some that are in pain and having problems at home.
We need to switch the focus of this board to all of our friends here.