As most of you know my family doesn't want to leave me alone in the house for long periods of time. They are affraid i might fall and get hurt or i won't be able to get up. I'm not used to this. I used to be a very strong person. I loved to rearange the rooms, which meant that i could pick up the t.v and move it around the room. Move furniture all by myself! And now i'm so weak, if i move a book (hard back) like the one i got for my b-day, it hurts to pick it up. I feel so bad for Scott( and he doesn't deserve this) when he calls and checks on me, his first words are "How are you feeling now?" I answer the truth what hurting if i'm tied you get the pic. don't you? I would love to tell him that i'm up running around doing something, but the truth is the Renee" he married died a long time ago! Now he is stuck with this lazy, complaing all the time, non happy, sleeps all the time. (Once again you get the pic. )wife! Then he starts telling me not to do this or that and then he'll call me later. Scott is a very busy man at work, he really doesn't have time to call me once but calls me 4 or 5 times a day just to see how i am doing. But he makes the time. I feel so loved by my Husband and children! Whoops I can't foreget about my new family We Fibromites.
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