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anyone here swallow cum? i tried it but had to spit it tased nasty, any advice

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drbeaker
drbeaker

If you don't like it, don't do it.

What the guy eats affects the taste quite a lot,
hardys
hardys

as above, if dont like it, do not do it....plenty flavoured condoms out there, so their cum does not have to go into your mouth....non flavoured ones taste nasty tho, so wouldnt advise that!!!!
Once its in your mouth, and this is only my point view.....in your mouth is where all your taste buds are, and weather you spit it or swallow it, not going to make any difference to taste, cuz still gona taste it as soon as its in your mouth.
What guys eat does definately affect how it tastes, but yes most importantly, if do not like it, do not do it, be honest, tell your partner, and know there are many many women out there that do not like it and will not do it!
deleted_user
deleted_user

If you do not like it DON'T do it. You tried it you do not like it that is your choice no one else's. Do not do something you do not want to do because you will regret it in the long run and it will become an issue. There is no rule that says you have to do it till he comes or you swallow or spit it out. It is your body you make no rules no one else. Try flavored condoms at least it will go in to the condom then. My advice is you are the one in charge of your body and the way things are done.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I just saw my type error I meant to put you make the rules no one else.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Most men like recieving oral and like it more if the partner can continue helping him cum even after he has started. What men eat does effect the taste. Each human tastes different too. Women taste a lot different from each other too. It is a bit a an acquired taste, I am told. Some women don't want to be within a foot of that thing when cum happens, others say they prefer that to vaginal because there is no danger of pregnancy. The possibility of an STD is definately there with oral too.

Perhaps the male partner can hold back his release so that only a little comes out the first few times. Then he can withdraw and finish up with vaginal sex. That allows an inexperienced partner to get used to it. The partner can also use bth her hand an oral at the same time. Once the partner starts to cum, she can remove her mouth and continue with her hand...maybe resuming when he has emitted everything. He may not notice the difference. .
Spiky
Spiky

It seems like a lot of men are obsessed with the idea of women swallowing their ejaculate. I don't know if it's the influence of pornography or what, but I am not crazy about it at all and am perfectly comfortable avoiding it. The guys I've asked say that orgasms feel better if their penis is still enveloped (by a mouth, vagina etc.) while they ejaculate, which makes sense to me. It still doesn't change the fact that I don't like swallowing semen; if any gets in my mouth I try to discreetly spit it out (apologies to my guy).
deleted_user
deleted_user

Here is something you might try before you do oral have ur guy drink pine apple juice. I didnt really mind his taste but that helped.

OBTW I think if a guy smokes that can really effect the taste too and make it taste nasty.

also he doesnt care if I spit or not just as long as I let him unload. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user

Don't swallow if you don't want to, but have your guy tell you before he's about to get off and then maybe give him a hand job?
aussiechick
aussiechick

i have no probs in swallowing,the taste doesnt bother me at all..i think it can depend on the guy..every one is different..i agree with the other ladies...you have tried it and didnt like it so just tell him its not for you..
des10ed2b
des10ed2b

than dont. just ask him to tell you when he is about to, or watch for his bodies signals that he is about to, take your mouth off and manually finish him with your hand. trust me, when it gets to the point of orgasm he is not going to care how it happens, as long as it happens.

personally, i swallow on my husband most the time. it doesnt bother me. but i have had a couple boyfriends in the past where i just couldnt do it. everyone has a different taste, odor, texture, etc. just another part of how we are all different. different foods and drinks can effect the taste of it too.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I didn't ever let my mate cum in my mouth, so I have no idea what it taste like. Once we were married the oral went on for a few years, but I have done it in a few years, not because I don't want to but because he wants to be the receiver and not the give :)

But if you don't like it he needs to be respectful and let you know the time has come. He can take it out if your mouht and you can just finish by jacking him off.
deleted_user
deleted_user

The 2 worlds oldest Lies:

1. The checks in the mail.

2. I wont cum in your mouth.

lol
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hate giveing oral sex
deleted_user
deleted_user

i agree if you dont like it dont do it. but i also understand that you want to satisfy your partner. so try this:

when hes about to cum, have him squeeze just below the head. this stops the come from coming out. however there is usually a little bit that tends to leak out. so as hes coming you can keep sucking on the head as he pitches off the cum. You will probably get a few drops in your mouth but it might help you built a tolerance to the taste. try it out see if it works. it can be alittle awkward cuz you have to focus on the head only as he pitches it off but i hear the head is most sensitive and it feels amazing. like i said, who know. you might build a tolerance for the taste. if its still not for you then simply dont do it.
deleted_user
deleted_user

well do what you think is right for you