Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
Does anyone else experience this? Sometimes during sex, this cruel little voice creeps up, and just starts ripping me 2 shreds. Doesn't even sound like my normal "mind-voice" is cold & just hateful! Become so filled w/ despair that I cry & cry & try 2 disquise it as heavy-breathing (my husband has caught on a few times "R U crying?" but I don't want him 2 think it's him, so I cover it up by saying i'm just stuffed-up or something-we only have sex in the dark so covering up a complete emotional break-down during sex isn't as difficult as it may seem. Don't know why it started happening, but am only able 2 cut it off, by "going numb" & now, I HATE SEX!!! I feel it's like when U lose weight, U try 2 work off u'r tummy & end up shrinking u'r breasts in the process-I tried 2 close off my mind to that self-torture, but now all my sexual responses have shut down as well.
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Honey calm down. If you have children some parts of you may never get back to pre-pregnancy weight or shape. I have serious emotional issues also. Talk to your husband he may be able to help you through this. You're thinking about what you look lika and he's probably thinking about how good you feel. Stop beating yourself up.
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