have given you my advie! but hope it helps :)

I am not sure, are you afraid your teeth will hurt him? Have you tried just licking? Maybe close your eyes if it helps. And from what I have been told, there is no bad way to do it, unless you bite. Try to imagine a luscious ice cream cone. Like I said, start with licking. Add some whipped cream if it helps with the image.

try a bit at a time , a lick , then maybe put a bit in your mouth, then another lick etc, try to fold you lips round your teeth *(if u know what i mean) and a good advise is definitnely, take a break between each suck becauseif you do it for a long time without breaking, your mouth jaw and neck start to ache
Have you tried having a drink first, to feel a bit relaxed,and if youre a bit embarrassed, put your head in a position where you cant see him or he cant see your eyes/head. im sure he wont complain whatever way you do it.

I defiantly understand your fears... I've been down there, I've even tasted cum... still I finally convince myself to start out slow by just licking it but I can't... I just freeze up.
I'm afraid of doing it wrong, afraid of the embarrassment...

I hate....HATE giving head. I think it's partly because I feel like I'm being used or something. But...I've done it. Basically, I just go for it and hope for the best. Licking and making sure your lips are over your teeth are both good. Also, so you don't gag, you might want to try putting your hand on the base of the penis so you don't shove it too far down into your mouth. Oh, and you might want to specify beforehand if he can finish in your mouth or not.

*shiver* I still hate it! And I never let them finish in my mouth!

Gosh!! Are you SURE you can't bring yourself to discuss it with him? If not while it's going (or not going) on, maybe when you're just getting cozy, but haven't actually started getting too seriously into having sex?
I mean, what do you -- and what does he -- think is happening when he's trying to coax you to do it and you can't bring yourself to?
Is it kind of like you both know that there's a bit of a problem there, but it's not being acknowledged?
If you really want to give him that but are just afraid of not doing it well, I think it might be incredibly exciting to him if you were to share that with him -- to just tell him that you've never done it to anyone else and would love to be able to give that to him and ask him if he could teach you how he likes it, but to STRESS to him that you're very nervous about the whole thing and to be very gentle and patient with you!!
I know that I feel best with it when I'm concentrating on how very much I love my partner, rather than the mechanics of it all. It just all seems to come naturally then.
Good luck!!!! I hope you find a way that works well for you!!! It must be very frustrating!!

carla has a good point, when I am doing it, I am thinking about how much I love him and want to please him. But I didn't like it at first, it did make me a bit uncomfortable. But going slow really helped.

Hon, there is no bad head. And unless you tear off a hunk, which you won't do, a little teeth isn't a big deal either.

Carla has it spot on - communication is key to any sexually fulfilling relationship. I love to give head, I love the power rush I get. I can't swallow anymore - when they say things change after you have kids, they aren't kidding, my entire sense of taste went berzerk - but I still love to give a blow job.

Relax. Stop thinking so much about doing it wrong and start thinking about how interesting a cock is. How it pulses with his heartbeat, how warm it is in your palm, how silky the skin is in contrast to the hardness of his erection.

And hey, if part of the fear factor is what else his cock does - have him wash up before you have bed play. That's what I did with my lovers and I never had a single one complain. The idea of getting head is WAY too good to pass up because I said 'take a bath', LOL!

Well, I think you have to find some way of talking about it with him, from what you've said he must have already noticed that there's something putting you off.
A simple "tell me what feels good" might be enough to start experimenting with - and since everyone's different, saying something like that isn't going to make you look stupid I promise!

I dont think there is such thing as bad head men love having there nobs sucked licked played with in any shape or form. Dont worry about doing it wrong because there is no wrong way!!!! Everyone dose it different!

WHO CARES THAT YOU WON'T GIVE HIM HEAD.. YOU DO EVERYTHING ELSE SO F HIM!!

well how long have you guys been together for? im sure there is nothing to be embarassed about and im sure he would be more than happy to give you guidance. I think he would be happy to know you want to know honestly!

Nothyroid - the man cares, I can tell you that... I honestly don't know one man who doesn't like receiving a blowjob.... Some don't like it as well as intercourse, but some would take it over intercourse every day...

See my thoughts on the other thread title "giving blowjobs."

I give you my 2 cents there.... Hope it helps.

ok tednug- I didn't say the man doesn't care- i was saying to her DON'T CARE F MEN AND THIER F-ING BLOW JOBS...!!!

OK. Nothy. Got it.

Suggestion - all caps is considered yelling by any forum protocal. If that's your intention, fine, but I can tell you that it's not really appreciated.