Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
I made an appointment with my gyno, but can't get in until the 14th. If you will look at my bio, you'll see that my hubby has cheated in the past, and we were "separated" (still living in the same house but not having sex), and he might have had sex with someone else, I don't know for sure. So, Saturday night, we had sex for the first time since right after Christmas, and then the next morning we had sex again....that time and the other 2 times we've done it since it has hurt like it has never hurt before. A little background, I have no uterus, and a bladder sling....so no period, but I'm 32 and still producing my own horomones. So sex was moist, and I had a orgasm, but when he put it in, it was like stretching, or pulling, something inside. Maybe that's not exactly describing it right, I don't know, that's why I say it was like something I'd never felt before. I hope it's not an STD or some other infection that he got from someone else and gave it to me (that's my fear)....can anyone help? No discharge, no smell, some lower back pain, but I deal with that normally from lugging a 30 lb. baby around on my hip. :)
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I know that's normal. Alot of people get pains during or right at the beginning. It can be just how your insides are at the moment. It can be a nerve or bowel spasome. There normal I have got pains before because of it digging in to parts of the body or going to high it feels. There is also if an iiud is in it can be rubbing against it. Don't worry its normal. Check with the doc & make sure your insides are normal & may give you something or ideas so its not as painful.
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I have painful intercourse sometimes. I use a lubricant and that helps. I have vaginal stenosis, and things are so tight that intercourse is very uncomfortable and gives me a burning sensation. I sometimes suffer anxiety afterward. I think that may be because I am anticipating the extreme discomfort that sometimes follows intercourse. I feel even worse after orgasm. I can still experience orgasm, but I avoid it because I know I will suffer the consequences. Sometimes,there can be emotional reasons for pain. I believe it is called vaginismus.
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