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no sex for a year!!!but not by choice

deleted_user
deleted_user
me and my husband of five years have not had sex for a year this november! i just had my third child in june. i have put on a little weight but he tells me thats no big deal. i think different of course. he kisses me on the cheek everynight to say goodnight and that is it. its been so long i really dont think i would want to even if he asked me right this second. but when i see or talk to other males i get tingly inside almost like i could jump on him in a heart beat. but i love my husband im not sure what to do and im too shy to talk to him about it. and i know he is not cheating on me he moves oil rigs everyday alldaylong no women in sight. i need advice on this. one year is a long time could my marriage be in trouble or should i cheat?
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah, one year is quite long. Maybe he thinks you're not into it after having a child. i suggest you talk to him, you've been together too long to shy away from the subject. it'll be awkward at first, but you'll feel so much better. don't cheat, it'll only make things worse.
Wilson
Wilson
A year is too long. A week is too long but a year is way too long. Don't cheat because that would probably end your marriage for sure. Talk to him and work things out.
deleted_user
deleted_user
HI As the others have said, try to talk to him first, a marriage is about communication and about working together, tell him how you feel , make sure he knows how you feel and ry to work something out
DO NOT CHEAT its not fair on him, and it wont be fair on you either, tell him how you feel , going with someone else will not make you feel any better ,the guilt will eat away at you, altho hes working away it is still a WRONG thing to do
good luck
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