I am currently dealing with my recovering sex drive issues...not to mention body issues. My b/f of 5 years has progressively gotten, for lack of a better word...lazy when it comes to foreplay. He seems to only want to lay on his back and let things happen to him. He acts like it's a chore to kiss me or touch me for long periods of time..he wants it when he wants it. I don;t know how to tell him how annoying this is. It makes me feel like I must be discusting or horrible to have to have sex with.And the worst part is, is that he was not always this way. The first 3 years of our relationship we had great sex. I have asked him about this many times and he says it's because he is so used to being turned down for sex by me in the past and/or he wants to have sex during the day...we both work all day so not much I can do there but aim for the weekends I guess...any advice on how to approach this problem in a better way?
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