First off I am not some dirty pervert in the womens forums trying to get off or anything. I just need women's advice. I am by no means the sexiest man alive, you can see that in the picture. But my wife and I have been together for 7 years this may, and for the past 5 years she has cut me off sexually. We have 2 sons ages 3 and 2, and I know you might be saying how did that happen then. Well it was a blessing from God that it happened. My wife works a 40 hour week on her job that she has had for 19 years. I am a stay at home dad, but I do have a nice income coming in from something else. I do almost all of the household duties from cleaning, washing clothes, cooking, dishes, bathing the children, all of the grocery shopping, the list goes on and on. My wife has to do one thing at the end of her work day, and that is absolutely NOTHING. She tells me all the time that I am the perfect husband. She says my 2 faults are that I don't dust enough to satisfy her and I worry way to much about the boys. Well if this is so true, why has she cut me off? She was not raped as a child, she has not endured any kind of tragedy in her life besides her dad dieing from cancer in 1999, she has no health problems of any kind. So whats the deal? We have had sex 1 time since the beggining of 2007, and that was after an arguement to get it! I have begged her to see a doctor or something, but she will not. When we dated and about the first 2 years of married life, we would have sex no less than 4 or 5 times a week, but she just stopped. I am only 35 and hopefully have many more active years ahead, but if she does not do something about this, I can not stay with her. I am forcing myself to now for my kids sake. I would die without them. I sometimes wish she would walk out and leave me and the kids so I could find someone else. But that would be hard on the kids because she is a loving mother. That sounds hard, but I have searched my heart and soul and can find nothing that I have done wrong to her. I am a romantic as well. I do random surprises for her. I have rented limos just to take her and I out. Got sitters at the last minute just to spend the evening with her, but all I get is a thank you and maybe a "Aawww, your so sweet". This is bull. What do I do, please help.
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