Ok, it's hard to talk about things like this with strangers.. but it feels a little easier than with anybody else. The past year I have had sex(good sex) maybe one or two times with my boyfriend of several years. We have a great and happy relationship but we have no sex life which is all on my side, he is fine. For years I have been able to get aroused and WANT to have sex easily, but now it's the last thing on my mind. About a year ago I started taking birth control but it hurt so bad and made me so sick I stopped. I took it about a month. When I had sex it felt like he was stabbing my ovaries. During taking the medication and after i noticed my sex drive was down. A few months later I was diagnosed with depression and began taking prozac.. this definetly ruined my sex drive. I took it about a year and it no longer helped me so i stopped and my sex drive never came back... and it's hard on the both of us because he feels it's his fault. I never want it.. like NEVER. I dont have much stress in my life at all, and im an overall healthy young adult. Since it's been so long, it hurts bad when i actually let it happen.. which is normal but makes me want to avoid it even more. I can get aroused.. i just dont want sex.. we've used lubes.. and vibrating rings.. arousal gels.. but it doesnt help. I dont know what to do.. i dont want him to feel at fault anymore.. and i want a happy sex life.. I am fine with doing other sexual activites.. and i can get off to that.. but i just dont want sex and i dont know why..
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