
Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...

lucindamartinez
Okay, so here's the deal. Been married for 10 years and love him dearly. For the last year, I just absolutely can not get enough. Have never cheated and am not interested in doing so. Just want more of him. He has the same drive that he had then, mostly, a little slower....what on Earth is going on with me? Any of you come to this place in your late 30's? Is it a hormonal deal and normal? Or is something weird going on with me? No BCP or other medical hormones (tubes tied, not needed), and no other changes in my regular medications. I guess I just don't quite understand. It would be great, except...honey wants to sleep and because he's sleeping and such, I lay there awake for quite a while sometimes secondary to my 'urges'. Suggestions or ideas are welcome. Anyone else going through this out there? Almost funny (I Definitely say almost) because this is the total opposite of me about 10 years ago.
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