Female Sexual Issues Support Group

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...

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is this just me?.

deleted_user
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im 20 years old.
ive been with my boyfiend for over a year an we havent had sex for 10 months.
its not that i dont want to but i cant.
i have no desire to whatsoever.
ive been talking to my theripist about this she gave it a name.
i just dont remember it.
but its like when i do have sex i just want ot tp be done and over with it.
does anyone else have this problem and how do you get through it.
its hard on me and my boyfriend. i just feel broke.
i know he loves me though cause hes still with me most guys would have left by now. but he gets frustrated with it to, but he is very understanding.
deleted_user
deleted_user
have you thought about approaching your doctor for a topical testosterone cream. it is mostly prescribed for women in menopause but they have found it extremely helpful in giving them back their sex drive.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hi There - I have been in a relationship for 7 years and only slept with my bloke a few times!!!
I know how you feel and am willing to talk to you anytime xx
deleted_user
deleted_user
Me too im the same
i dont feel like it much then when we are doing im always thinking 'hurry up ' lol
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deleted_user
p.s.
im 36 and been with my man 5 yrs so a bit different there in age to you
deleted_user
deleted_user
#1 you are so right!!!!!! i use it and my sexdrive is outragious. i recemend it for everyone!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh jzm67, I wish I could tell you it was okay and it will get better but I can't. I probably shouldn't have even replied but this is what happened to me...exactly; and I've just decided, after 25 years of marriage, that I can't deal with it any more. I never did enjoy sex with him, even though I was in love with him (and I loved him because I knew, deep down, that he would never hurt me and alway be there and work hard for us and do the right thing). So, I finally met someone that I gave myself too and the sex is fantastic...I wasn't looking for it, I didn't ask for it but dammit, now that I have it I'm not giving it up. I have set a date to tell H that I want a divorce. Whether I can tell him the real reason(s) why is another story but I will face that when I come to it. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.
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ive suprised myself over the weekend, i dont know if its because of the support on here, or just reading how everyone else has the same kind of problems, but ive been in the mood ALL WEEKEND and have actually DONE it a couple of times and ENJOYED IT so there is hope for all of us !!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
is it you're just not that into him? Please, don't take this the wrong way, I just am trying to understand
howlinwolf
howlinwolf
No it is not just you. I feel that way too alot. I am into my bf but i guess alot of times i want closeness without sex and just dont get in the mood. I rarely ever feel "horny" its just not a mood i get in. Do me a huge favor tho, if you talk to your therapist again would you please ask what the name of condition you couldnt remember is please i would love to research it maybe it can help me. and you. Please let me know, ok?
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deleted_user
Oh dear heart at 20 I feel for you
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