Ok, here goes, I'm really kinda leary about posting this online but I don't know what else to do. I am on meds for depression and birth control and a list of other mood controlling drugs and to add to that I have a history with being sexually abused and raped. But my fiancee has a high sex drive. He says making love to me is kinda like making love to a corpse because I don't enjoy it and really my body is not into it at all. He never forces me to do things I don't want to do and has never hurt me. Despite this I can't get 'into' the mood. We've tried the warming creams and it worked once but then the second time had no effect. I've talked with my doctor and she says meds could very well be causing some of the problem but doesn't want to change them at risk of me becoming unstable. I feel horrible because I can't please the man I love. If anyone has gone through this and can give me some tips I'd be greatly appreciative...
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