Female Sexual Issues Support Group

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...

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I feel weird

N79
N79
My hubby always makes comments like he wants to mix things up. So I ordered a bullet and this cockring type thing for us to use together and now I'm totally feeling like I dont want to open it or use it. Like I'm ashamed or something, anyone having any advice on that?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Have you talked to him about it? Maybe if you opened up to him about it he could assure you that everything is fine. Just know that your not doing anything wrong so long as you are both comfortable with things. Give yourself time to become comfortable. Have you ever watched Talk Sex with Sue Johansen? It comes on Sunday nights 11 or 12. She talks about a lot of this stuff.
N79
N79
Thanks. No I havent talked about it yet. I'm working up to it. I am in bed by 9p so I dont see alot of late night TV.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Talk with him about it. I am kinda in the same boat right now. I can't have sex for 2.5 weeks dues to a hysterectomy (but my sex drive is sky high) and I asked my husband to help me out manually. He wants to use my vibrator on me, and I felt kinda dumb. But when he told me that "I thought it would be cool" I felt alot better. I guess I was also worried about him feeling wierd, since we've never done that before.
deleted_user
deleted_user
*That should read 2.5 MORE weeks (we've already waited 3.5)
N79
N79
WE USED IT THIS MORNING..HE BROUGHT IT UP AND I WAS SO EMBARRASSED AT FIRST BUT I GOT OVER IT...IT WAS FUN, STILL FEEL WEIRD BUT WE DID IT AND THAT WAS HALF THE BATTLE..THANKS FOR THE ADVICE
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