My x husband left me 2 years ago because of my low libido. It started probably 2 years after we were married. I think looking back now I was suffering from depression from a move that we made due to his job. I was in a new town and away from family. We would argue about it, but I guess I was naive to the fact that sex is that important to a man. We were so in love and I never thought he could stop loving me over that. He did buy educational videos (porn to me) to help spice your marriage, but they really didn't do anything for me, but made me realize I should see a doctor. Well, by that time 2wks later I found out I was pregnant with our 2nd baby. I knew my hormones would be out of wack, so I didn't see a doctor. I guess during my pregnancy he started having and affair and 3 months after the baby was born he left. He married the girl that he was having the affair with 5 months later. We were married 9 years and together a total of 10. I guess I just can't get over the fact that he stopped loving me like that. Is it possible for a man to stop loving his wife because of that? I guess I am just soo angry that he didn't even suggest counseling. He just gave up and went somewhere else. I don't understand how he could fall in love with her that easily. I guess I just wonder if he ever really loved me at all. But, I don't think I conjured up the love that I felt in my head. It has been 2 years now and I don't think I will ever experience a love that strong again. I pray that I will, but I am very discouraged. I would appreciate any advice and especially a male viewpoint. :)
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