i used to feel the same way, still kinda do, but not so bad. i started hanging out naked (when no one was around), made me alot more comfortable with myself. try on the lingera (not sure on spelling either) and watch a movie or something, keep your mind off the fact that you're wearing nothing, eventually you'll get used to it...

hope this helps a little

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if your confidence is low it will not matter what other people say as its whats in your head, i know, but if that is you in yur pics from what i can see you havent got anything to worry about , you look beautiful in the pics, and youre body looks great from what i can see you o/h will prob love you as much too

i used to have this problem, my therapist come up with another therapy, when you are alone, lock the door, walk around the room nude, watch cartoons or somthing else that you find fun and distracting, when you are feeling more comfortable bring out the lingerie and try not to be critical of yourself...it is hard particularly at first....good luck!!!!

we always see something different than what are partners see to me i am ugly to him im the sexiest thing alive ( arhhh god bless him ) i find havin a couple of glasses of wine helps but really i need to start liking myself ! ive read a good way to confidence build is to write 10 things you like about yourself and concentrate on these positive things when you get undress eventualy youll realize if we all looked the same what a boring world we live in always remember beauty comes from within x x x

Lingerie doesn't make me feel sexy if I am feeling bad about my body. I have to work from the inside out, not the opposite. Putting on nice clothes when I feel ugly inside only makes me feel foolish. If I started exercising again I always felt better about myself in a matter of weeks. Try to find out what is really getting at you. A new haircut might help temporarily but if it's something emotional try to get to the root of it.

how about trying to dim the lights, it makes for a romantic feeling, and also hides a lot if your feelin insecure. You can also try the kinds of lingera [sp?] that you can keep on during sex. Some guys seem to like that, and then you don't feel entirely undressed

i do also agree with what vanilla said, it sometimes makes me feel worse to try and dress sexy when i feel icky. So i started very slowly with those things...in very dim light! lol
but no one is perfect.

working in my industry i see how much retouching models and famous ppl get on there photo's. . . even how much lighting and camera angles help make ppl look different. That was a big help for me...
some of these women aren't even recognizeable in the origional photo's

I hope that's helpful to know! Everyone has beauty.