Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
i am so new here, so i hope i dont scare anyone away. my husband and i have been together for 18 years, married 9, we have always had problems, financially usually, has had a hard time holding on to jobs. tries his best but it does not always work out. i am a very strong minded person. say and do what ever i choose, and at times can be very hurtful when we have arguments. i have brought to his attention on many occasions, that i wanted to be in a domestic discipline relationship. and being that we are christians, i found out on line there is a thing called christian domestic discipline. it gave scriptures from the bible saying that you husband is you master and so on...i dont want this for kinky reasons. i want to be disciplined (spanked) for when i am bad. i want to be held accountable for my actions, i was very spoiled growing up, and it has moved with me as i get older. i spend money when ever i want, say things when ever i want, with no reprocussions, i want him to spank me to teach me lessons, i know they will hurt, horribly bad, but i feel i need them to keep me in line. when i brought it up to him, he was like, i dont want to hurt you and so on.... where not on the same page here and any advice will help. he has never ever hit me in a violent way, and im not looking for that, strictly spanking is what i need
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
Would you feel more sexually aroused within your relationahip if your husband spanked you (even if the sex did not occur at the same time as the spanking?)
If so, then maybe you have to accept that it IS a sexual issue with you.
If not, it's certainly not a very common practice as you present it. I don't know as it's fair to him to make him responsible for your actions. If you are really strong minded, you certainly won't need his aid, particularly in such a manner as spanking.
Since you are Christians, go to the head of your church for guidance in this matter.
Good luck!!!! I hope you find a way that is acceptable to both of you!!!!!
And who cares what we think =]
I personally find the above reason a lil disturbing as aposed to just plain kinkiness. But I'm not about to knock you for either...whatever makes it work for the both of you
But I think you'll get more out of it if you can clarify to yourself what it is about it that appeals to you!!!
And the better you can explain it to your husband, the more likely it is that he'll want to accommodate you!!!