i am a 21 year old female, who has a great husband and a beautiful 2 year old little girl. But i have a major problem when it comes to sex. I have been having sex since I was 15 years old, and I have only gotten off 1 time my entire life. I know that it doesn't have anything to do with my partners cause i have enough of them, to know that it is me. Sex hurts me, I don't enjoy it at all, i never get horny, i can't get wet and if i do get wet then i get extremely wet for only ike 2 minutes then i'm dry again.I always have a really bad discharge. When i talk to my doctors about it and they examine me they say that everything is normal. So what could it be. It scares me that i'm going to lose my husband because he loves to have sex, i swear he walks around 24-7 with a hard on. And I on the other hand could go forever without having sex. when he brings up sex, i always change the subject or inda try and blow him off. it's not that i don't like having sex with him or that he's not good in bed, thats not the case at all, it's just that sex hurts me, it's uncomfortable, and i worry that he will get fed up with me never getting of or getting wet, and eventually it will cause us a problem. my husband loves me, but he is a man that has needs, and i want to be able to take care of those needs but how can i when I pretty much hate sex. i have tried creams,jellies,toys, you name it and nothing seems to make it any better. what do i do? Am I the only one with this problem? Am i just a freak or something?Please can someone help me. I'm 21 and feel like i'm 80.
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