
Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
I'm wondering if he's using the proper technique in stimulating the G Spot...
There is a lot of material out there on this subject; however, from my own personal experience as the giver of the orgasm, I wait to enter the vagina until my wife is very turned on.. Lots of kissing, caressing, tickling, etc... By the way, my wife much prefers the G Spot orgasm to clitoral orgasm - plus she has multiple orgasms (i.e. 5 plus) in a short period of time - to the point of exhaustion.
With my middle finger (start with one - add a second later) facing up, I enter the vagina - a little past the 2nd knuckle... I have big hands, so maybe most of the finger... Pressing upward, you'll feel a spongy like object.. From what I understand, that's the G Spot... I typically go a little past (deeper) that spot and use a "come hither" motion with the finger (curling the finger back toward the vaginal opening..) and stimulating that spongy tissue..
After the first orgasm, I add my ring finger to the mix.. After 3-4 orgasms, I will stimulate the Clitoris with my tongue, and end the foreplay with full blown oral sex, which is the icing on the cake so to speak.. After she's completely exhausted, I enter her and complete the experience....and mine. The result is total exhaustion and satisfaction for her.... It's very satisfying for me as well - knowing I can satisfy her sexual needs like this..
Don't overlook that for the man either. Call it ego, etc. We want to know we can satisy a woman.
Do some experimenting. I'm sure every woman's body is a little different. And don't get frustrated if it doesn't work the first time. I would also do additional research on the subject.
Oh yeah...and i have no issues getting off with my boyfriend now. It DOES help.
For G-spot orgasm, we have sex standing, with me bent over (I wear some high heeled boots to get me higher) and do it doggie style. It seems at that height, my husband hits the spot just right.
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