I'm honestly beginning to think it's more of a head thing... before I couldn't even do it myself if my boyfriend was in the room and now I'm to the point where were so close it frustrates me when he comes before me...

Its a mind thing, the more you want it the less it will happen. just relax, but easier said than done!

Atleast you have had one, even if it is an "o" and not an "ooooooohhhhh my god" Some woman dont get to feel anything!

Are you referring to a G Spot orgasm...?

I'm wondering if he's using the proper technique in stimulating the G Spot...

There is a lot of material out there on this subject; however, from my own personal experience as the giver of the orgasm, I wait to enter the vagina until my wife is very turned on.. Lots of kissing, caressing, tickling, etc... By the way, my wife much prefers the G Spot orgasm to clitoral orgasm - plus she has multiple orgasms (i.e. 5 plus) in a short period of time - to the point of exhaustion.

With my middle finger (start with one - add a second later) facing up, I enter the vagina - a little past the 2nd knuckle... I have big hands, so maybe most of the finger... Pressing upward, you'll feel a spongy like object.. From what I understand, that's the G Spot... I typically go a little past (deeper) that spot and use a "come hither" motion with the finger (curling the finger back toward the vaginal opening..) and stimulating that spongy tissue..

After the first orgasm, I add my ring finger to the mix.. After 3-4 orgasms, I will stimulate the Clitoris with my tongue, and end the foreplay with full blown oral sex, which is the icing on the cake so to speak.. After she's completely exhausted, I enter her and complete the experience....and mine. The result is total exhaustion and satisfaction for her.... It's very satisfying for me as well - knowing I can satisfy her sexual needs like this..

Don't overlook that for the man either. Call it ego, etc. We want to know we can satisy a woman.

Do some experimenting. I'm sure every woman's body is a little different. And don't get frustrated if it doesn't work the first time. I would also do additional research on the subject.

you know when you have hit the g spot, it makes u feel like u need to pee.

i had this exact same problem, and still do to an extent. First of all, it IS in your head. You have thought sooo much about it that when you are having sex you are trying to make it happen, if that makes any sense. Also, if you say you "think" you have had one, you haven't. I said the same thing and the first time i ACTUALLY had one i thought there was something wrong with me! What i did to help this was experiment with myself a lot. Watch a lot of porn, buy some lube, buy a vibrator and play and play until you get there. Not only will this give you one, but it will show you what works and what doesn't. I know personally that i can only get off from clitoral stumulation and i didn't know that until i started playing around a lot. So go buy a vibrator AND lube (lube works wonders) buy some porn that seems interesting to you and see what happens. It helped me because nobody else was around, so i could do whatever i thought would feel good. Hope that helps.

Oh yeah...and i have no issues getting off with my boyfriend now. It DOES help.

I am 42 and have only ever had ONE orgasm while having intercourse. I have no problem while experiencing oral sex, etc., but I just don't do it that way. I have always wondered how it happened that one time, WAY back when I was maybe 18 or 19...

try being ontop, and yes it's a head thing (litterly) lol just makeing a dumb joke. seriously though it is very very mental. man tednuggets advice sounds pretty awsome!!!! i think ill write this one down. well good luck and take care 500SL.

I usually have an orgasm, unless I "try" to hard and think about it. If I think about it, I might as well give up. I just think about something that turns me on instead. I also have to be on top.

For G-spot orgasm, we have sex standing, with me bent over (I wear some high heeled boots to get me higher) and do it doggie style. It seems at that height, my husband hits the spot just right.

Its a head thing if you try too hard it wont happen, you need to relax and when you get the feeling like you want a wee just carry on this is when you get the big OOOOOO

you may be wanting it "too" bad...can you have an orgasm by yourself?...i have one of these gadgets...its amazing.

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