Female Sexual Issues Support Group

Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...

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help?

deleted_user
deleted_user
so like...im really skinny and everyone thinks im soo gorgeous and stuff but then it comes to sex, i get scared. its like im scared of what they will think when im naked. like i dont like my vagina? also im a lesbian..idk if that makes a difference. i mean i like other peoples vagina just not mine. i feel like its different? idk why....please help
Wilson
Wilson
I'm sure you have a very nice looking vagina. I have never seen one that I didn't like. I think every women has something that they don't like about their body but other people thinks it is beautiful. I'm sure you don't have anything to worry about.
deleted_user
deleted_user
If you find someone who is very picky about your vagina, walk in the opposite direction. It is not your job to conform yourself to other people's standards, it is your job to find an awesome person that worships you and that you can worship back.
deleted_user
deleted_user
maybe it's just an insecurity? maybe it has something to do with your orientation... i know some people that have always just FELT like the oposite gender.
i agree with wilson and arashi though =]
when your with the right person,...hopefully you won't worry about it so much.
Marah
Marah
If you feel bad enough about it, there is plastic surgery for that area of your body. I think it is kinda silly. And those sugeries can effect your physical arrousal and such, so I would be really really sure. You also should remember that due to it's position, it would be impossible for you to see your vagina the way others see it. And if someone loves you, I am sure they will think it is beautiful.
deleted_user
deleted_user
When I was 15, I didn't know anything about sex. My parents never really sat me down. I knew about pregnancy and birth control, but intimacy was another story. I thought you just went to a party, got drunk, and found someone to have sex with. That's what all the TV and movies taught me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
its not so much that i want to be a guy...its just i dont like my vagina...idk..its weird. i hate this feeling though.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think mine is weird too. Same feeling I get when I see a woman's breasts. I think, mine don't look like that, her nipples are nicer, whatever. I can't change these things so I let it go.
I am an artist and since I've taken so much life drawing classes, I've seem so many different men and women's naked bodies! None are anything alike. I guess that's the beauty in all of us.
deleted_user
deleted_user
yeah. i see your point. i guess i just have to accept the way my body is. thanks for the help guys!
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