I went to Fla. to help my Mother and my Step Father move to another City in Fla. where they could be closer to a half sister. While I was there taking care of the transefering of medical and financial paper work and getting them the least costly rental I had both my half sister and half brother turn on me and I don\'t know why? I asked them and they said I was treating them like employees. I didn\'t think I was doing that but because I am the older sibling I guess they felt intimidated by my handling of our parents affairs? Now I have received a letter from my Step Father and he laid a guilt thing on me saying why wasn\'t I calling my Mother. I have been but she has Alzheymers and possibly never told my dad? Hard to say. But I was angery with his accusations and did write him a not too nice letter back. I have forgiven my Step father for his sexual abuse when I was 9 yrs. old. He has a very controlling nature and is very mean if things don\'t go as he feels is his way. Now my letter was shared with my half sister and she shared it with her daughter and the flame has spread out of control. I guess I want to know how to get past this and move on with my life not feeling guilty for saying what I felt needed and had to be said. Let me know if any of you out there have exsperienced the same thing. Thanks, Smiles
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