home situation is this: 10 yr old son, diagnosed several years ago with ADHD, ODD, wife and son fight, constantly, sometimes its hard to tell who's the adult, fight about everything, he pushes her buttons, she pushes his, she does'nt clean, house is total disaster, they both leave trash on the floor, or couch where she sits, which is mostly where she is watching tv, never cleans up after meals, i have found moldy pots on the stove, never empties or fills the dishwasher, i find dishes on the couch, end table, floor, i work 40 hours a week plus, she works about 25, we tried counseling but everything the counselor suggested was ignored, i try to clean but its very hard to do around both of them, the clutter is their clothes, papers and such, i'm tired of the yelling, of the clutter, of all the housework. . any suggestions?
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