
Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.

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My neighbor and her husband went out the other night and ended up having a threesome with a girl that works with the husband at a restaraunt. In the middle of everything the wife gets up to go to the bathroom and when she comes back her husband is on top of the other girl (not doing anything). She got very upset up this but knows that what they were both doing was wrong. The next morning the husband said he was sorry things got out of hand, he wished the whole night never happened and he wasnt drinking for a long time. The wife is confused and doesnt know what to do. She said she keeps picturing him on top of her. She gave me some details and it didnt seem like the husband and co-worker were doing anything but I would still be upset to. She know she had a part in all this but she worries that now the husband might begin something at work. She said her husband has never cheated and that they were both really drunk and both really regret letting things get out of hand, but nevertheless things did. The husband says nothing will happen that he has no interest in this girl and that he was sorry. I have seen this girl and she is a pretty heavy set not so pretty girl. The wife is thin, blonde, and very sweet. To top things off they do have child together. I dont know what to tell her and she really wants to know from a guys point of view. She is afraid that if she starts asking her husband questions he will get angry and tell she just needs to forget about it. Does anyone have any good advice I could give her (especially from a males point of view)?

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Yes my advice would be to stay away from it until it blows over.. the next thing you know they will be angry with you.. honest just let it ride.. Love D

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I would tell her that you are always there to listen, but also that she should not start to doubt her husband until he does something when he's not "really drunk". After all, it was a threesome and the wife was involved too..maybe it will bring them closer together. But, beyond comforting her and listening to her, I agree that getting more involved than that could get ugly.

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I would stay out of this one before it becomes a problem for you.
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