Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
i was very close with my dad when i was little. alot has changed...i KNOW he loves me, but i feel like he loves my older sister more..she doesnt live with us. and when ever they see each other his mood changes he gets all happy and glowing, they talk like there bestfriends.
I feel like a bad daugheter to him...my mom is my bestfriend and when i was aorund 13 my dad became very depressed, suicidal and verbaly and one time physically abusive...to this day my sister doesnt know about this.
my parents fight alot and my dad says things to my mom and me that i hate, i have told my mom to get a divorce abunch of times. but then on days were my dad is happy its like i was little again, but it seems like he trys to buy my love...i know he is just trying to be a good dad, but why cant i except that he is trying and isnt perfect.
i feel like the bad daughter, i turned my back on my dad when i told my mom to get a divorce and im sure i have said some very very bad stuff about him to her.... i know a favor one parents over the other and i feel so bad for that, because he is trying and i know im not a easy daughter to have.
well i just needed to vent.
I feel like a bad daugheter to him...my mom is my bestfriend and when i was aorund 13 my dad became very depressed, suicidal and verbaly and one time physically abusive...to this day my sister doesnt know about this.
my parents fight alot and my dad says things to my mom and me that i hate, i have told my mom to get a divorce abunch of times. but then on days were my dad is happy its like i was little again, but it seems like he trys to buy my love...i know he is just trying to be a good dad, but why cant i except that he is trying and isnt perfect.
i feel like the bad daughter, i turned my back on my dad when i told my mom to get a divorce and im sure i have said some very very bad stuff about him to her.... i know a favor one parents over the other and i feel so bad for that, because he is trying and i know im not a easy daughter to have.
well i just needed to vent.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Let me tell you a little about myself.
I am concidered the black sheep, the bad girl,the hard daughter to have and not easy daughter to have too, of my family.I was abused and continue to be even now that I am an adult.
And because she abused me, I acted out. She said that I was disruptive, bad, and made all kinds of trouble(from the age of 6).
I was abandoned by my family on several occassion but now that, my parents--my father and step monster(she abused me)they want contact with me, want me to be their daughter again.
That's a big laugh!!!
Step monster can't treat me like an equal part of the family(and she's told me so), like she does my brother and sister.Her children with my father-absent father to me.
Step monster blames me for all the abuse she heaped on me and for her shitty life.
I consider myself a good person, and so are you so don't let anyone tell you differently.
Don't get me wrong, when my brother and sister and I were younger I hated and resented them for all the good attention they got but through a lot of work with my therapist, I know it's not their fault. It her fault--step monster--her shit. So now my brother, sister and I have a good strong and loving relationship independent of our parents--and that I think pisses off my step monster to no end because she can't have the same with me as they do.
So don't feel like the bad daughter, cause you aren't.
Try and live for yourself and not for them cause they sound a little messed up. Make yourself happy, that's what I'm trying to do.
lol.