I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. I am Bipolar (additional info) and my bfs mom might be but she isnt diagnosed yet. When I first met her she was quiet, but nice to me. Then I found out she said some comments behind my back from his brother that lives at home. My bf got me a promise ring for our 6 month anniversary because I know inside that he is the one I am going to marry. He kept this from her because he didnt want to hear her mouth! She has a mouth of the south if you know what I mean. My family are well off and professional where his family are "country" haha..not redneck but just a little country. My mom is in fashion, reads cosmo, wears vera bradley and his mom wears overalls, no make up, dont care about fashion, etc. Get the picture? How do I relate to her? I have to go see her again this weekend and I want her to like me! How do you deal with someone like that? He is the oldest so I knwo shes like "this girl is taking my oldest away!". The whole family loves me but her. When we go out to eat, it is kinda embarrassing with them b/c my family is so different but she looks at me as if I am too good. I dont know what to say..I talk but not that much and when I know she changes her mind about me all the time...I dont know what to do! She found out about the ring, and is hesitate. We arent getting married until college is over. But she doesnt understand that we arent jumping! Please give me some advice on what to do! This is the first mom I havent gotten along with!
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