My daughter is 34 and can not get her life together. Many years of doing drugs has kept her quite immature. Her little girl means the world to me. She has been abusive to both her daughter and me. .She has such a hot temper. You never know when its coming. My grandaughter is scared to death of her. I`am ill and I`am always taking care of this little girl because I love her dearly and I want her to have some source of positive stabilty in her life. My daughter treats me like crap. You would think she would be grateful but she expects this. How could I just up and let the little girl be without me. She is always telling me how happy she is that Iam here for her. That she loves me the best, I`am her God. I just can`t stand being treated so poorly. Granted sometimes I might get a little bitchy but thats not allowed with an abusive person. They immidiately fly off the handle and start screaming at you. Then it usually goes into the "I won`t let you watch that little girl if you don`t watch how you talk". The threat is always the same. She has a problem with hkeeping jobs because of her impulsivity. But I`am sure she can`t see the connection. She can`t handle money for the life of her. I`am up to my ears with laoning her money. Today she was so upset with me because I bought my grandaughter too much for going back to school.I know most of the clothes stay at my house because she needs clothes for here because she stays here so much but I would think she should be happy.For instance when I was telling her about a bargain I got on a jean skirt her reaction is, "what do I care what you pay". She`s so nasty to me and I`am sick of it. Unless she is talking about something in her life she is okay. If I want to give my opinion on something that I know she may not want to hear, she says bye, and hangs up on me. Guess I just needed to vent about this daughter of mine. I know there is probably know easy answers. I just would like some respect and still be there for my grandaughter. Oh I almost forgot, she has been abusive to the little girl by screaming at her and hurting her physically at times. I have now asked my grandaughter to start telling her teacher when she goes back to school or her counselor if mommy does things like that again.
Thanks for listening..
Thanks for listening..
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