I am so fed up and i feel that i cant deal with my family any longer. She's (my sister) is back to living with us again. I always get in trouble for things she doesn't do and today, my father almost got physically abuse with me because she refuses to do what she needs to get done and i get blamed for it (even though i constantly remind her). Well, things as always got out of hand, and i start yelling at my father and at my sister because of the sh*t i have to deal with. As always, she ignores me, tells me to get out of her room, tells me I'M too much and says to me she needs to leave and go to work and we'll take care of the issue(s) another day. This is what she says on a daily basis, when i constantly need to remind her of her obligations and i get into trouble from every direction. I'm seen as the bad one because i actually try and resolve my problems. She never wants to do anything--- people always need to clean up her mess. She's almost been homeless, hospitalized... and she still doesn't get it ( and she's almost 40) What can you say to someone who's almost middle aged to grow up and start taking responsibility. I'm almost half her age, yet I'm the one that needs to take abuse because of issues she refuses to deal with.
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