My parents split up about 16 years ago! My dad was cheating on my mom and decided to leave me my sister and my mom for her! I decided down the road to forgive him and move on which my mom sees as basicly excusing his behavior, which I made clear was not the case! I have basicly spent the last 16 years being put through guilt trips from her, b/c I want hate him and cut him off, and of course blamed b/c I can not fix the relationship between my sister and my dad! She listened to her and then changed her mind, but then dad was fed-up I mean it is enough to drive you nuts! I now have 2 kids and it is really hard! I have never been able to have them over at the same time before, but just recently I told her that I was inviting them both to my daughters special school function and she really showed herself! I know it's not my fault, does she just need someone to blame b/c he isn't around! I don't think she realizes how much she has hurt me through the years, even though I have told her, we have hashed it out many times, and she will opologize and say she will do better, but it's the same ol....I really think it will be this way until the day she dies, and I am sooo tired of being in the middle and having to hear it!
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