Me and my husband divorced a couple of years ago, but a few months after our divorce was final we got back together. I thought we were doing great we were getting along better than ever before. We had even mad plans to get married again. Until last weekend. I came home from work and found a letter on the bed. He told me that he was leaving me for a man. He said that he had been seeing him for more than a year and had fell in love with him and they were going to move intogether. I looked around the house and all of his cloths were gone, and some of the thing around the house were missing. I called him on his cell phone and asked him why he had to do this the way he did, why he couldn't tell me face to face. I never got a real answer but I was more concerned fo our 2 boy, I asked him how he was going to tell our kids, and he said that he was going to have me tell them. I flew into a rage. Why should I have to do this? I said and he said he couldn't face the look of disappointment on their face and all the questions they would have. I asked him what about about me, how do you think I can do this, He said I don't how you do it I just can't do it. I haven't told the boys yet and I am not sure how to. How do I tell my boys their dad has left me for a man and is to much of a coward to tell them himself? Please help!!
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