My dads sister, my aunt emailed me today that she is passing through town on friday and asked to take me out to lunch for my upcoming birthday. I can't remember the last time I saw my aunt, but I think it had to be about 6 years ago. I'm surprised to hear from her and in shock that she remembers my birthday. I'd like to get together with her, but I am actually a bit concerned that she might want to also spend the time with my stepmom, or dad. I want to ask her if it's just going to be the two of us, otherwise if she is planning on getting togther with either of them I'd rather not meet up with her. I haven't spoken/seen my dad in over 2 years and I'm still not ready, but I don't know what she knows about the situation. I don't want to make a big deal out of my non-relationship with my father. So how can I ask nicely if it's just going to be the two of us?
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