Well, to give you a back story here, my parents are separated and have been for most of my life. We moved to California almost a year ago and he was lonely so he kept trying to get me to put him on dating sites since he can't use the computer, so I did and he went to a meet up from one of the sites. He went to a winery, called me said he was then going to a bar with some of the women, so that was fine, then for 3 days no contact at all. That's so not like him. He had been out with other women and he went out with them and then came home. He would at least call. But with this woman I couldn't get in touch with him at all and he wouldn't call me. So finally on the 4th day of trying and me having panic attacks (yes, he knew I worry and I have bad anxiety issues) he answers and told me he's coming home. Finally! So he said he wants me to meet this lady and she's going to be staying with us for awhile because she's losing her house. WTF?!?!?! They JUST met!!!!! First of all, who tells someone on their first meeting they are losing their house? Not a good conversation starter.. So I took a friend with me and right away I hated her and I was pissed at my dad, so the first meeting went very bad, but that staying with us for awhile changed to she's moving in. So here I am now, it's almost 3 months later and I still hate her and I am still very mad at my dad but I can't say anything to either one because my dad blows up and gets SO mad and I'm afraid, and I don't like talking to her at all. I feel bad for her as much as I don't like her because she has no where to go. If my asshole dad hadn't taken her in right away at least she'd have a back up place if it didn't work out! Now, my dad's going to buy a house in northern CA and guess who's coming.. yeah. Her. I'm not happy. What can I do? I have no friends and no family and I can't talk to them, I have no one and I am desperate. I just need advice and someone to talk to.
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