I have been over and over this with my hubby to be. We are extremely happy about getting married in the next 2 weeks sometime. Our plans are to elope to Tahoe on the Nevada side and have a little fun too. I have a very pretty dress and he has a very nice suit. In fact the suit is exactly like the one we were married in before. We have been married to each other in the past - so you can only imagine how thrilled we are to be back together. But his mom is frantic because he is having neck surgery very soon. I don't see why it should interfere with out plans and I don't think he does either at least that's what he says. She wants us to go to the courthouse right now and she's making it a chore instead of something to celebrate. I'm very happy she is so accepting of me. In fact she doesn't want him to miss out on keeping me in his life. But this is affecting me in such a negative way. I'm scared he's going to just say 'forget the whole thing becuase it becoming a free for all. I left all the plans up to him. I thought it was appropriate to let him make the plans. I haven't been married at all since i was married to him and he in the last 20 years was married for 2 weeks while with the thing. (that wasn't nice) lol - but the legal marriage dragged on for 5 years - his divorce was final just days ago - you should've seen him smile - I guess what I'm doing here is I just want to hear someone say to blow off the nonsense and to let it go. I know that's the right thing to do. I hope I can keep from complaining about it to him so I'm writing here. I don't want him to think it's a chore now because we have been so looking forward to this. Thank you for listening. Hugs, Mary
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