
Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.

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I'm at the end of my rope when it comes to my inlaws! to make a long story short...they have money problems because they spend what they dont have way too much and then bum it off of either their kids or thir parents. well when they borrow form us, it puts us in debt and its always something. my husband is a good guy and whats to help if he can...and eeven when we cant. so my inlaw decided that they are moving...into the same apartment complex as me and my DH! its not the first time they have done this, thats why im pissed off becuase it seems like everytime a flea farts they are around and its irriatating! plus to add a littel fuel to the fire, im & months pregnant so they will never go away!, it the first grandaughter in the family so they will always be around since they hardly ever get to see their grandson. im just afraid they are gonna push and push and im gonn lose it to the point that everyone hates me. so how can i discuss this with my husband, in a way that he wont think ing being abitch but get the point across to him that we need to set some boundries and quick they are moving in between the 1st of december and the 15th of december. i would really appreciate it!
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