I'm new here and a little afraid about spilling my heart out, but I need to do something before I explode. I have been married almost 14 years. My husband is a supervisor for an oilfield service company. He is gone crazy hours, and sometimes doesn't come home for days. His work was like this when we met, so that doesn't really bother me, I have learned to cope without him being around and have control of most everything. What really bothers me is that lately he doesn't communicate with me or the rest of the family. He comes home, eats, and goes to bed. I have tried talking with him, but all he says is that he is tired. It is creating a HUGE strain in our house. His 17 year old son told me last night he wished his dad would just go to work and never come home. Anyone else hav this prob or have any advice?
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