My immediate family has done nothing short of inflicting emotional devestation on me the past two years. I started thinking the other day, "if you want to be loved and show love during the upcoming holidays, why not "regroup"? If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one your with.....make your own custom holiday by entertaining and connecting with other family members, godparents, etc.? I may try it. Why waste away because of people who are not worth it? And who knows, maybe word will trickle back and give you the last word. We can't help who our relatives are, so start creating yourself a new set! What do others think of this idea??
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