Hi, I am 34 years old and have been married for 13 years. Three months ago I found out my husband has found another woman at his job. He took money from our bank account and told me he was leaving because he was no longer in love with me and he wasn't happy. I cried, he cried and he left for about two hours and decided to come back and make it work. He told me he stopped talking to this girl, but was lying to me. About two weeks ago, he did the same thing by taking money and leaving. But this time he decided to do it when I had to take our son to a baseball tournament. He came home to get his stuff and explained to our 12 year old daughter that he wasn't happy and he wasn't 'in love' with me anymore. When I came back from the baseball game his stuff was gone as well as him. I spent that night until around midnight crying with my two kids. We woke up at around 6am that next morning and had to keep trying to explain why daddy left. We've had our ups & downs before, but always worked it out. Needless to say, he wanted to come back again and I left him come back. I don't know if I made the right decision. I think a family should be the kids and both parents but I don't know if I am teaching my kids the right thing by letting him back. Any advice?
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