my husband treats his family as if they are more important than we are. i have tried everything to get along with them but their value system is much different than mine. he drinks with them every saturday night. he does not care that i do not want to drink...those are his plans and if i want to spend time with him, i have to go with him and be around drinking. i end up drinking sometimes and i am not a pleasant drunk. i work all week long--he has his own business and has to travel and works pretty much at his discretion. I am working on my masters and work full time and get kids to counseling once a week...i am gone at least 3 nights a week. i look forward to the weekends to spend some time with him...however his plans revolve around his sister and her family and drinking. i have told him how i feel to no avail...he says he likes to drink and is going to drink...and that translates to drinking with his sister...they are musically talented...we all sing together and he plays the guitar...I enjoy doing this some but do not want my life or his planned around his sister and drinking...i am at my wits end and thinking of divorce...
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