My mom and I are the best of friends, and I love her very much with all my heart and I mean to do anything that I can to make sure that she will be doing alright. I live with a family of 6 other siblings, with ages raging from 17-3. We always have our ups and downs. Lately my mom has been driving me a little bizarre because she feels that once she starts off her day with something going wrong, then she immediately feels that the rest of her day goes to pot. I don't know if shes going through some kind of menopause, or what her situation is but she can have a very downer attitude that I wish she didn't have. She says things like "I could be dead tomorrow" and "enough to make jesus christ go insane" when she's aggitated. She even said one time when the house had a little mayhem that everything is her fault. Even today we had a little mishap where the dog got sick this morning (we have an english mastiff puppy) and made a huge mess of everything and she tried to blame it on me saying that I didn't wake up in time and then pushed it aside realizing it wasn't my fault not making it a big deal. But then through the car ride on my way to work my little siblings were in the back trying to fight over a toy gun and I tried to fix the problem but then they were playing games with me making the situation less hectic and the next thing I know, they fight again when they turned around so my mom took the liberty of trying to fix the problem and then as soon as my mom did it we were about to get hit and then she blamed it on me saying why did I sit there with a stick up my ass and then she tried to subside that, still pissed off. I don't want my mom to get so nugatory. Any advices?
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