my sister lives with my mother..and dont you know she started screaming and yelling at me when i asked her if she directed a comment, that she made to me when it was me, her and the two kids only in the room...long story short, i could not get a word in as she scremed and yelled, i gathered up my stuff and left, anthony, my son, was very very upset, he is going to be 5, and, so was my sisters daughter, and, now, because i was leaving I was the wrong one, i should have stuck around and took my sister's crap, NO WAY, first and foremost, this was going on in front of the kids. She was screaming like you would not believe, came out of left field i asked her whether or not the comment was directed at me, i never yelled. My son was totally upset and even when we got home, he said, i dont like aunt....! I feel horriable, it is soo long winded that I cannot get into the details, but, basically, she made a comment to her daughter that she needed to leave the room, because people were giving her (my niece) dirty looks!! I glanced over at her, and, all hell broke loose. My sister then started to scream that i think i am better than everyone, and, my son does no wrong, that me, my husband and son, should stay where we live, and blah blah blah...my feelings are hurt, before i left i said to her, and was NOT yelling the whole time that i was hurt, and, that i have never mistreated her daughter my niece and god-daughter!! or her...she says oh, you'll get over it! I am so done with my sister, my husband and life...i want to run and hide...any suggestions, tips and/or advice..i am stressing out big time!
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