This is a long story but in short;- I'll be turning 30 soon & my mother has never shared my fathers identity to me, she has never mentioned him to me, i know absolutely nothing about the man. She had me when she was 16yrs old & she has kept my father a secret from EVERYONE all these years. I've often worried that maybe i was the result of somehting horrible that happened to my mother. I feel i have the right to know who my father is, i've asked her once when i was 20 & she just walked away from me & my question. Should i persue this or should i leave it be & leave my mother to her secret? Does anyone have any suggestions on how i could find this information out? his name was never listed on my birth certificate.
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