I have been married almost two years and I'm not happy.My husbands idea of a marriae and mine are different. For example We started counseling 3 weeks ago and already he saying he doesn't want to go because he feels uncomfortable. I asked him why he felt uncomfortable and he got mad at me asking me "why do you need to ask questions? I said because I feel uncomfortable and leave it at that." I told him married people communicate, talk about there problems,fears,dreams,they just communicate." He asked "why do we need to be like other married people?" He told me he fixes problems with money. I told him Are problems can'tbe fixed that way. I tell him often that I feel lonely. I liked to talk about things have some laughs but very rarely does it happen. In one breath he'll tell me I can talk to him about anything and when I do as soon as I say something he doesn't like he tells me to shut up and he doesn't want to discuss it any longer. Can you please tell my hsband how a marriage should be? I want my husband to hear from other people on how a healthy marriage should be. Please read my journals to get a better idea of my situation.
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