hi there all :). my partner and i often fight over nothing and he says that i control him too much and he doesnt feel like himself anymore. i can see where he is comming from but i dont know how to settle down. you see when we first met he would drink so much that he would wet the bed. now hes better doesnt drink that much at all but lattley after the lose of our baby he wants to drink more. he said he wants to drink a carton a week, is this too much? i said half am i too controlling? whats a fair amount to drink and how do i stop telling him that he sholdnt drink. i only do it cause i worry about him and i cant stand when he drinks n you try to talk to him and he doesnt make any sence...i dont want him to go back to the person he was, drunk. (but is this what he wants) how do i stop figting with him and just be happy that he loves me and is in my life..