Here's a weird situation. I got to know someone online whom I started having some "hots" for. It's completely irrational because I am what I thought was happily married. I do love my husband and I do not want to lose him. What makes it "worse" is that that other person seems to share the hots for me. Likewise he's married and has no intentions to back out of his marriage either. This is weird because we've had talks like how we would be each other "backup" if for any reasons our marriages ended. We are not pursuing anything other than sharing a fantasy. I still feel very wrong and guilty for even talking to him. I am very lost at what should I do. If I stop talking to that person, that would be painful, if I continue, I am scared this is wrong towards my husband. I told my husband about that person and told him how the person felt about me. What I did not tell him was how I felt about him. I dont want to lose my husband, - somebody help!!! =(
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