I am the fiance of the Father of the Bride. We have been living together for 3 years and plan on marrying next year (although we have not announced this yet). He had been divorced for 7 years before I met him. I recently learned that his sisters-in-law (he has 5 brothers) threw a family bridal shower for his daughter. I was not invited, my fiance's ex-wife was. The bride has had a shower from relatives on her mother's side of the family. I might add that the little interaction I've had with his ex has been nothing short of dismissive and rude to me since I've been on the scene, so I can understand not having us both there. I am hurt and my partner is angry. Shouldn't I have been in on a party from her father's side of the family, while his ex had her party on her side?? I feel so sad. I don't know how to handle this.
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