Ten years ago my stepdaughter(at the time 13)accused my stepfather of sexualy abusing her.He's never been accused of anything like this in my 34 years of knowing him which made it hard for me to believe it t'ill my wife and I confronted him about it. Even though he denied it I knew he was liyng.I have'nt spoken with him since.To make a long story short he spent time in jail and to this day my mother and my family on my mothers side do not believe it and are very bitter about it.They figure he did his time and its time to let it go.I cant just let it go.To them my stepdaughter lied for no reason just to ruin his life and I'm sick and tired of their nonsense.My wife is going through chemo for lukemia she was diagnosed with three years ago and that along with my three daughters are my main concern.I love my mother very much but I'm ready to let her and the rest of the family go.This the first time I've ever written my thoughts about this down and it actually feels good.If there is something I'm not doing or should be doing please let me know. Thanks Myke.
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