Ok, so I was raised by my grandmother since I was 2 hours old. She recently passed away, which is hard enough dealing with. But, before she passed, 2 of my aunts, her daughters, moved back to Arizona to take care of her. Well, while they were here, they took advantage of her completely. One aunt had access to her bank stuff so she paid herself 500 a month to take care of her own mother. Granted she did have to move from texas to take care of her but with my grandma not knowing that i think that was messed up. Then, she started hanging out with her sisters down here and doing drugs and stuff. She would leave my grandma at home by herself for hours saying that she was going looking for my mom (a diff story for a diff day). My grandmother was immobile and couldn't do much of anything by herself. Then all of a sudden she decided she wanted to go back home to Texas. So, my aunts moved my grandma up to Chandler from Tucson where we live. Now, the major thing with this was I called them and they told me they were moving my grandma. The whole reason why they came down here to take care of her was because she didnt want to move out of her home. Also, I live with my grandma (im in school at the dorms now). So, i called one day to say hey im going to see grandma so wake her up if she's sleep, and they said oh she's in Chandler now. WTF! And not only did they not tell me that they were moving her, but they also didn't tell me that I had to move out of my and my grandmas apartment by the end of December. So, not only did I have to deal with the backstabbing they did to their own mother, but also the death of my grandmother, and moving out of a place I have called a home for all my life during Christmas break, BY MYSELF. The only people that helped me move stuff were MY friends and my mom occasionally. With all that background of the story, what I need help with is how to deal with all this. Since all this happened, I guess my issue is not really knowing who to trust in my family? Do I continue to love them and just put aside the fact that I know everything that happened? Do I act like I never knew? Please help!! Thank you
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