My ex MIL hates the ground I walk on and always has. She told my ex husband a bunch of lies on me and he thought she was telling the truth. She told him that I was cheating on him which I wasn't. That our daughter was not his which she looks just like him and has his temper. When we divorced she even took me to the lawyer(I found he was cheating on me with a older women). The week before he took his life he had came over to my place to see how we were going to do mother's day that weekend. When his mom droped off our son she was mad because he was there and we were talking. When his mom or girlfriend wasn't around me and him got along just fine and were friends. His mom went home and called his girlfriend and told her that me and my ex were getting back together. The next day the girlfriend called and confronted me about this. I told her that it was a lie and that I was dating someone else. So that night I picked my kids up and droped the bomb on his mom and told her that I was dating someone else. That Sat. night my ex got a phone call from his girlfriend that she was going back to her husband. That Tuesday he took his life in front of her. I blame my Ex MIL that she couldn't leave well enough alone. I now live with my boyfriend and get a SS check for my two kids and me. We are now moving to Florida so my boyfriend can take a job. When I called my ex MIL to tell her about the move. She tells me that now she lost her son and now his kids, and she even lost me. The women never wanted me in the first place to her I am tralier trash. She wants me to marry my boyfriend now but she dosen't want me to move to Florida. The only reason she wants me to marry him so I won't get a SS check anymore. She treats both of my kids different. She tells my son to come home and tell me not to send his sister anymore because of her he dosn't get to do fun stuff. Everyone that knows her and that is not in the family says the same thing go and get far away from her. I just wish she would grow up and see what damage she has done.
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